12 Sexy, Slutty Moves to Give the Best Hand Job Ever!


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Put those magic fingers to the test by learning how to give the perfect hand job, and drive your man crazy with the best hand job experience ever!

You may be good at orally pleasuring your man, but as many men would dare to tell you, a totally awesome blowjob involves a lot of hand work as well. The two go together like sugar and spice to make something more than just nice – a mind-blowing experience!

Still not convinced? Well, let’s crunch some numbers: the average penis is 5 to 6 inches in length, while the average mouth is only 2 to 3 inches deep. And unless you’re that talented in deep throat, your hands can make up for the difference to ensure that your man gets the total workout. Besides that, a good hand job also comes in handy if you want to do something naughty for your partner but don’t want to get a di*k in your mouth, especially when you’re just hooking up and you don’t know his past.

How to give your man the best hand job ever!

So if you want to take that masturbatory technique to the next level and add your own hand flourish *pun intended* to it, then follow these tips to get your man off to the magical land of horny hand jobs.

#1 Choose your potion. First of all, you should consider slicking up those magic hands. While it is possible to give a hand job with a dry hand, it can tend to hurt him due to friction. It’s also sexier when it’s slick, so pick a lubricant of your choice: water-based, oil-based, or silicon-based lube, or even your spit. Whatever it is, the kind of lubricant you use can be a game-changer and can turn a heated moment into full-throttle.

#2 Choose your best position. When it comes to creating magic with your hands, it is best to find a position you are both comfortable in. You can jerk him off while you’re sitting on top of him or while lying on your side. You can also have him standing up in front of you while you sit on the bed, or he can straddle your stomach. Be inventive with your positions but ensure enough space for your hands to do their job. [Read: The 30 most creative sex positions that are definitely worth trying!]

#3 Don’t be afraid of a firm grip. Your man is strong, and his penis has its share of strength-training too, so don’t be afraid to give it a confident grip. After all, it’s not a flower, so give it a real tug—but not too much.

Just as we have different preferences when it comes to the massage pressure applied to our muscles, men like their monkey stroked in different ways too. It all depends on how perceptive you are of his reactions: does he flinch or moan when you do this or that? Once you figure this out, you are well on your way. [Confession: My happy ending massage experience]

#4 Determine the height. The height of how you move your hand up and down his length is actually determined by how comfortably your man’s foreskin is being stretched as you move. If you pull down too far, you might strain the skin directly beneath his glans, and this will hurt, making him go soft.

Meanwhile, if you pull too high up, you may knock against his glans, which is very sensitive, and might therefore hurt him as well. You can observe him when he is beating his own meat, and see just how he strokes himself. [Read: 7 things to love about an uncircumcised penis]

#5 Determine the speed. Although giving the perfect hand job is not rocket science, it still takes some careful calculations in terms of how fast you should go. Again, you can observe him as he gives you a show.

The important thing is to first start with slower, longer strokes to get a rhythm going, and once you both get warmed up, you can then speed up. Watch for his expressions and reactions to see if you’re going too fast that it hurts, or too slow that he might think you’re not in on it.

#6 Fingers or hand? If you want to be a pro, you should learn to use every part of your hand, including the fingers. So as a form of teasing, you can run a finger from the head down to the balls in one smooth, seductive motion. For him, this would feel like one gentle tongue stroke in a blow job. Meanwhile, the palm is there for the bigger moves, like when you want to feel his dick getting harder as you perform the classic hand job. [Read: How to master the art of the sexy finger blowjob]

#7 One hand or two? A good way to jerk him off, aside from just grabbing him and tugging up and down with one hand, is to alternate between your lefty and righty. Or you can use both hands. The thing about this is your dominant hand might get too tired, so you have to switch it up and let your other hand get some “man hours” too.

#8 And if you have a free hand? If you are an all-star and you can accomplish the deed with one hand, don’t just leave the other dangling. You can stimulate other parts of his body, such as his balls, which are incredibly sensitive. You can fondle his jewels or gently run your nails across them to give him an extra boost of pleasure. You can also massage his perineum, the area between his anus and scrotum, or even play with his butthole, whatever you both are into. [Read: 9 hot blowjob secrets to drive him wild with desire]

#9 The flick of the wrist. If your arm gets tired and you want to minimize friction, you can also create magic with simple wrist rotations. Or gently rotate your hands as you slide them up and down his shaft to create a pleasant stimulation that will make him feel much more aroused compared to simply jerking and wringing his manhood.

#10 Go to the tippy top to bring him over the edge. Aside from his balls, the most sensitive part of his privates is the top of his penis, or the glans. So when you’re giving a hand job, you should give this spot high priority. The easiest way to do this is to make a tight “O” shape with your thumb and index finger, and put it over the top of his penis. Then just move your hand up and down about a couple of inches to stimulate both the frenulum and the ridge of the glans. [Read: Big blue ball facts every girl’s got to know]

#11 Don’t forget the frenulum. Frenu-what? The frenulum is that tiny patch of skin on the underside of his penis. It is a piece of flesh that joins the glans and the shaft—and it is mighty sensitive. You can run your finger over it as a teasing foreplay. If you get tired of moving your hand up and down, you can also take a break from the shaft and softly rub his frenulum for several seconds before going back to the shaft again.

#12 Embrace variety. Now that you have read through most of the tips, by now you know that jerking your man up and down between your fingers isn’t the only way to do it. In fact, there may be 101 ways to make your man come with just your hand doing the work.

What you can do is to experiment with a variety of stokes and movements to find what your guy loves, but be careful with changing it up too much because you might leave him so confused with the fluctuating momentum that he might go limp again. [Read: 15 biggest sexual turn offs for guys when you’re trying to arouse him]

Remember, no two men are created equal and alike, so if you think you have your hand job formula down pat, think again. You’ll have to experiment with different moves and strokes to find out what exactly can leave your man weak in the knees with your hand. Better yet, you can ask him what feels good as you compliment him on his manhood while you’re at it.

[Read: The complete guide to mastering the art of the perfect blowjob]

Just as important as technique, you have to have the right attitude too. So shrug off any performance anxiety and have fun pleasing your man. Your enthusiasm will definitely be as big a turn on as any hand job.

Original article by LovePanky.com: 12 Sexy, Slutty Moves to Give the Best Hand Job Ever!.

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