Is your man seeing you with a white dress and veil…or looking behind you, at that hottie at the bar? We’re looking at 13 signs you’re The One.
Men are some of the most confusing creatures out there. That much, I know is true. They can be giving you all the “signs” and everything can seem perfect, but the moment you initiate the next step in the relationship, they run away screaming like a four-year-old who has just contracted cooties.
This behavior makes it nearly impossible to tell what men are really thinking. And you just can’t ask them because men know almost nothing about how to talk about how they feel. So how do you tell? I mean, am I the only one who wishes they could read minds at times like these?
Signs he wants to marry and spend his life with you
Although men don’t typically talk about their feelings, they actually go to great lengths to show you how they’re feeling. They do little things here and there that really let you know how much they care for and appreciate you.
It can be as subtle as doing the dishes when you’re stressed out, but it definitely means a lot more than just cleaning up after dinner. They’re trying to ease your stress and keep you happy—which speaks volumes, in man-talk.
Every guy is different and they all show they care in many different ways. But these signs he wants to marry and spend his life with you are fairly common. This is how you can tell if they’re thinking about putting a ring on that pretty little finger of yours. [Read: 12 unsexy but really practical signs he’s the one you should marry]
#1 He invites you to all of his family functions. When you’ve met his parents and his close friends, and he begins inviting you to all of his family functions, it’s a sure sign he’s thinking you’re the one for him. He wouldn’t be introducing you to everybody and having you get to know them if he didn’t plan on keeping you around for a long time.
Maybe he also wants them to get to know you and see you interact with everyone. This way, he can be sure that you are not only a great fit for him, but a great fit for his family.
#2 He boasts about you to others. Do you always catch him bragging about you to his friends, family, or coworkers? This sense of pride is not to be taken lightly. When a man starts to boast about his significant other, it means that you have become a part of him, in a sense.
He is now seeing your accomplishments as his own, and by talking you up, he feels better, as well. This means that he sees you as a part of him and his life—which is a sure sign that he wants to make you his and spend his life with you.
#3 He talks about the distant future with you in it. I’m not talking about making plans for next weekend. I’m talking about making plans for next year. If he’s putting you in his very distant plans, this means that he definitely plans to keep you around for more than a short while. [Read: 14 undeniable signs he wants to spend the rest of his life with you]
#4 He wants to live with you. Men like their space. No, actually—men LOVE their space. So if he’s discussing moving in together, what he’s really discussing with you is how he wants to spend his life with you.
Guys don’t just want to move in with anybody. When they open their personal space and invite you in like that, they’ve definitely got wedding bells on their mind.
#5 You guys talk about kids. If there’s one thing men like more than their space, it’s free time. And you don’t have free time with kids. But if the two of you are openly talking about your future children, he is seeing you as their mom and his wife. It’s a sure sign he wants to really spend his life with you.
#6 He always says “we” when talking to others. When the two of you are in a group setting, does he talk about how “we” went and did this and “we” went and saw that movie? If he’s begun replacing “I” with “we,” he is seeing the two of you as an item.
This means he recognizes that the two of you are actually a single package—something that marriage will certainly solidify. In other words: he wants to marry and spend his life with you.
#7 He doesn’t groan when wedding invites come in the mail. Most guys who aren’t thinking of anything even close to marriage will moan, groan, and complain about all of the wedding invitations that have made their way to their mailbox.
But if he’s less annoyed and more curious and/or excited about weddings, it means that he’s at a point in his life where he appreciates them and maybe wants to have one of his own…with you. [Read: 25 obvious signs you’re high on wedding fever]
#8 He’s open about everything with you. Trust is key in a relationship. If he can open up to you about his insecurities, work issues, or really anything, then he definitely sees you as someone worth putting a ring on.
#9 He values your opinion on big decisions. This is a huge one. If he’s out car shopping or making any other important decisions, and he asks you to tag along and gets your full opinion on it before acting, this is a major sign that he wants to spend his life with you.
He’s feeling out if the two of you can make big, important decisions together and if you agree on them. This is vital for having a future with someone. [Read: 11 sure signs the guy you’re dating is a real keeper]
#10 You go on vacation together. Vacation is a man’s time to get away from work and all the stresses in his life. If he’s bringing you with, then he definitely sees you as someone who can soothe any of those issues. That’s a surefire sign that he wants to spend his life with you.
#11 He always wants to work out any issues you two have. If a man doesn’t want to keep you around forever, then they’re not going to be so willing to solve problems. Usually, they’ll just let them pass until the issue seems to “go away.”
But if your man is actively trying to solve any current problems the two of you have, this means that he really wants to make sure you stay with him. It’s definitely a sign he wants to marry and spend his life with you.
#12 He “feels out” the idea. Has he ever brought up getting married casually in a conversation? If so, then he’s wondering if YOU are thinking about marrying and spending your life with him. Talking about marriage for any guy is a big deal, and if he’s talking about it with you, watch out for a ring in your near future! [Read: How to get your man to propose by reading his mind]
#13 He tells you. If he tells you that he wants to marry you someday, or that you’re the one for him, then that’s the only sign you need! When this happens, he’s certain he wants to marry and spend his life with you.[Read: 25 signs your man is madly in love with you even if he doesn’t say it out loud]
Trying to figure out what a guy is feeling is always difficult. If you’re nodding and smiling as you read these 13 signs, you’ll know you’re the one…and a certain finger bauble is sure to be forthcoming!
Original article by LovePanky.com: 13 Signs He Wants to Marry and Spend His Life with You.
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