There is nothing ethical about cheating. You might have your excuses and explanations which may be right for you, but your significant other feels cheated and that is wrong. Cheaters paly it smartly until they are caught. And once they are, they come up with extremely lame excuses to justify themselves. Here are some of those:
It happened in a different place: Cheaters usually justify by saying that they slipped because they were away from you, travelling and they couldn’t resist the temptation. What he also means is that he won’t be seeing that person again ever since they are from different places.
There is no emotional connect: This is the most common justification. “It was just sex. My heart is only yours and I love you like I always did”. If you are not cheating emotionally, it’s not even counted as cheating for a few. Read: 10 signs you are cheating on your partner emotionally.
I was too drunk: This is the worst yet the most popular justification ever. Would you make out with someone when you’re drunk and your wife is still around? The “I was drunk and didn’t know how it all happened” kind of excuse is just a pass for men to sleep with random women or enjoy one night stands.
We were just sexting: For those who cheat, sexting, video sex or cyber-sex is harmless. “We didn’t even touch each other. It’s just that the conversations led to us getting horny”. Virtual sex is not-even-sex technically is what they’d like to believe. Read: 5 situations that can make your partner cheat.
I was angry: So if you guys have had a fight, he goes and sleeps with other women. Is that justified? Would it be OK if their significant other did the same thing? If you are so desperate or horny when angry, masturbate. But why would you think of that? Read if women cheat when they are sexually unsatisfied.
I was lead on: “She seduced me. She forced me into it”. Do you really think it’s easy to believe this one? And even if someone seduced you, what about self-control. Doesn’t this increase your chances of cheating because there will be many who can seduce you at any point of time? Here are five signs that say your partner is cheating on you.
I deserve better: “You’re always busy with family and kids. You never have time for me or my sexual needs.” “You’re boring in bed. You’ve never made an effort to try out new positions or do exciting stuff”. “I feel neglected and no connect in our relationship. We don’t even have enough sex”. But does that really justify cheating? If you are so unhappy or you deserve better, why not walk out of the relationship and then be with someone.