If shyness is your problem, you need to overcome it. If you are shy, you will find that it is very difficult to date people. There are many things you can do to eliminate your shy attitudes. You must overcome the weakness that causes you to be shy. You need to replace the negative attitude with positive attitude. One way to overcome your shyness towards women is to smile. You should as smile to people as often as you can in the right situation. You can look at yourself in the mirror and smile. When smiling at the mirror, you should say something positive.
Shy people can sign up for a class where a lot of people participate such as gym class, adult education class, hiking class and etc. If you have a married friend, you can ask him to introduce some single friends to you. Your friends may help you to plan out the date. They can introduce you to their friends. Research shows that 75% of the people that date someone because of the help of a friend.
You should act yourself all the time. Many men like to act like someone else because they don’t want to upset the women. Women are more likely to leave when the men try to act like someone else. Many men act like someone else because they feel that there is nothing special that they can show off to the women. You should never pretend to be someone who you are not as women will perceive this as dishonesty.
Women like men that are confident about themselves. When a woman sees you, the first thing she will notice is the body language. You should walk in upright posture when approaching the woman. You should not make any unnecessary movement. If you make too many movements, it is an indication that you are not confident about yourself. You should avoid fiddling your finger. If you find yourself fiddling the fingers, you should put your thumb near to the index finger. When looking at the woman, be sure to make eye contact. If the woman smiles at you, you can go and speak to her.
Once you get started with dating, your shyness will disappear and you will become all the more confident. The only thing you need to is muster up the courage to start and in no time you will master the art of dating a woman.