Why Is This Important?
Long Story Short
Popular online dating site Zoosk has released a bunch of data about what works and what doesn’t when it comes to your opener, based on the real messages their users are actually sending… and there are lots of fascinating surprises contained within.
Quick: Without cheating, which word in an opening online dating message is more likely to get you a response — “sexy” or “adorable”? If you’re proposing a first date, should you mention “go out” or “tomorrow night”? And if you want to compliment your match’s appearance, should you mention their eyes or their glasses?
If you’re not 100% sure of the answer to those questions, you could be forgiven. For those of us not blessed with Casanova-like messaging skills or Chris Hemsworth-esque good looks, online dating can be tricky. You want to send someone a witty first message to capture their attention, but in a world where a single tiny typo can mean your message will be completely ignored, it can be tricky to strike the right note.
That’s why you’ll want to pay attention to the latest revelation from online dating giant Zoosk. Boasting over 38 million users, Zoosk is a legit powerhouse in the online dating world, so when they release numbers that take into account the actions of all their users, it’s worth paying attention to: This is a very real and mathematically significant snapshot of what’s going down in the dating world right now.
So what does their data tell us exactly? Well, it’s fascinating stuff. Let’s take a peek at this infographic and see what we learn:
So that’s settled, right gents? No more “Howdy, I love your photo, wanna go out and have some fun in the sun?” — instead, you’ll be saying something more like: “Wow, I have a bit of a crush! Between your adorable glasses and your awesome profile, you seem like trouble. Let’s go out tomorrow night…”